Culture
A practical guide to behaving well in mosques, shrines, gurdwaras, temples, churches and Kalasha valleys, and to the nuances of photography, dress, Ramadan, hospitality and gender norms across regions.
Wazir Khan Mosque, Lahore
Pakistanis are famously hospitable, and visitors who arrive with curiosity and modesty are usually welcomed generously. This guide goes further than the basics in our general etiquette and culture for visitors page: it focuses on sacred places of different communities, on how customs vary across regions, and on the nuance in subjects, such as gender and photography, that are often flattened into rules.
Three principles underlie everything below. First, customs vary: cosmopolitan districts of Lahore, Karachi and Islamabad differ from villages in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, Balochistan or Gilgit-Baltistan, and families within a village differ from each other. Second, watch and ask: when unsure, observe people of your own gender and age, and ask a host, guide or caretaker. Third, no community is a spectacle: the Kalasha, Sufi devotees, Sikh pilgrims and mourners at Muharram are practising faith or living their lives, not performing for visitors.
Official travel advisers add that visitors must follow local law, which includes prohibitions on photographing sensitive installations, on alcohol and on religious proselytising. See Photography Rules in Pakistan and safety tips; this page does not replace current advisories.
General guidance; always follow caretakers' instructions.
| Place | Typical expectations | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Mosque | Remove shoes; dress modestly; women usually cover their hair; avoid prayer times unless invited | Never walk in front of anyone praying; ask before photographing, and avoid Friday midday prayers |
| Sufi shrine | Remove shoes; modest dress; head covered | Qawwali and dhamal are public acts of devotion; men and women may use separate areas; ask before filming. At Sehwan, Dawn notes that both Hindus and Muslims venerate Lal Shahbaz Qalandar and that some devotees enter barefoot |
| Gurdwara | Cover your head; remove shoes; no tobacco | Accept langar food, the free meal, with both hands if offered; rules for non-Sikh visitors and photography vary |
| Hindu temple | Remove shoes; be discreet with pilgrims and rituals | Festival days such as Shivratri and the Hinglaj Yatra are very busy; follow the custodians' guidance |
| Church | Dress modestly; remain quiet during services | Ask before attending a service; do not photograph worshippers |
| Parsi sites | Generally not open to non-Parsis | View the community's schools and colonies from outside |
| Kalasha valleys | Dress modestly; ask before entering any home or sacred space | Do not film women or rituals without clear consent |
Sources: Cultural Atlas, Government of Canada travel advice, Dawn (Sehwan urs, March 2023), Al Jazeera (Sikh sites) and our own place-of-worship notes. Conventions differ between sites and sometimes between days.
Many mosques admit non-Muslim visitors outside prayer times, but not all do, so ask at the entrance. Women are generally asked to cover their hair and arms and to use a separate section where one exists. Shoes are left at the entrance, and a small tip to the shoe-keeper is customary.
Shrines are lively, not silent: drummers, qawwali, offerings of rose petals and a steady flow of visitors are normal. Dawn describes devotees at Sehwan dancing dhamal at dusk, some barefoot and beating their chests in memory of Imam Hussain, and notes that the urs there was suspended in 2020 and 2021 during the pandemic. Treat devotion as devotion: do not photograph individuals in trance or prayer without permission, avoid stepping over offerings, and keep your voice low. Women may be directed to a separate area. Crowds can be intense during an urs, and security arrangements may restrict access; follow local guidance.
Ramadan. Canada's travel advice says to avoid drinking, eating and smoking in public between sunrise and sunset. In Islamabad, Dawn reports that the federal cabinet approved stricter penalties under the Ehteram-i-Ramazan Ordinance for eating, drinking or smoking in public during fasting hours and for eateries that knowingly serve food; provinces have their own laws. Many restaurants close or screen windows by day and fill after iftar. Hotels usually serve non-fasting guests discreetly; ask. See Ramadan in Pakistan.
Eid. Expect crowded transport, closed offices and generous invitations. A simple 'Eid Mubarak' is the right greeting.
Muharram. The first ten days of Muharram, and especially 9 and 10 Muharram, are a period of mourning for many Muslims, particularly Shia communities. Aaj News reported in July 2024 that processions were held in major cities under strict security and that mobile services were suspended in sensitive areas. It is not a celebration: dress sombrely, keep your distance from processions, avoid loud music and do not photograph mourners without permission.
Canada advises dressing conservatively, notes that shorts are considered inappropriate for men and women especially in remote areas, and suggests women consider carrying a headscarf. Cultural Atlas adds that dress should suit the occasion and avoid emphasising the figure. In practice, a loose tunic and trousers with a scarf for sacred places works for women, and long trousers and sleeved shirts for men. In cities you will see a wide range of clothing; in remote areas, more reserved dress.
Norms vary by family, class and region. Cultural Atlas notes that at conservative families' events men and women may socialise and eat separately, and that a man should not give gifts directly to a woman in such settings. Many public places have family or women's sections. At the same time, women work in many professions across the country, and urban social life is far more mixed than the headline rules suggest. Do not shake hands across genders unless the other person offers first, put your right hand on your heart as a greeting, and avoid public physical affection; Canada advises couples to avoid even holding hands.
Canada advises asking permission before photographing local residents, and says it is illegal to photograph government buildings, military installations, infrastructure and airports. Be especially careful with women and children, and never photograph worshippers, mourners or devotees in trance without permission. In the Kalash valleys, visitors should not film women or enter homes uninvited. If someone declines, accept it. When posting images, think about whether the people shown would be comfortable. See our photography guide for detail.
Many mosques admit respectful visitors outside prayer times, but policies differ, so ask at the entrance. Dress modestly, remove shoes and avoid taking photographs of people praying.
Not on city streets in general, but a scarf is expected in mosques, shrines and gurdwaras and is advisable in rural areas. Canada recommends women consider carrying a headscarf.
Avoid eating, drinking or smoking in public between sunrise and sunset. Ask your hotel how non-fasting guests are served.
Only with permission. Never photograph military sites, airports or infrastructure.
Place your hand on your heart and thank your host warmly. Accept at least some tea.
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